Thursday, November 13, 2014

It's all Chinese to me

Thinking back to the first weeks and even months of living in China, anytime someone would speak to me I would have a mini panic attack. Coming with the notion that "Chinese" is the hardest language in the world to learn meant I was in quite a daunting situation. Being a tonal language, the sounds were just so foreign and with having some knowledge of French and Spanish (so easy, right?), Mandarin just seemed impossible. I quickly learned the basics: greetings, "thanks", "yes" and "no", "this" and "that", and numbers. Actually, one of my first phrases was ting bu dong -  a very helpful "I don't understand". Unfortunately, this hasn't been the easy "one answer fits all" solution I was hoping for. Unbeknownst to me, ting bu dong roughly translates to "I don't understand what I'm hearing." China is made up of many cultures and peoples all with their own spoken language. They have been united, however, under a shared written language. That's right. They can speak and not understand each other but write out some characters and they're all on the same page. So, they have found that if someone claims to "not know what they are hearing" a handy solution is to write the characters. Except this didn't work on me. I was still lost. And even more confused that they wouldn't leave me alone after I already said "I don't understand!!" They will kindly speak more slowly and enunciated but it really doesn't help when I still have no clue what they are saying to me. It's rather humorous and usually ends in us sharing a laugh, me apologizing and them walking away shaking their head. Pretty scary situations for this new expat. ;)


















After a couple of months I felt Chinese (ok, technically it's Mandarin, but everyone here just says "Chinese") was starting to sound familiar. I could catch some words and tones and felt encouraged by the few phrases I was learning to recognize - the common ones we are asked such as, where are you from and how old are you (to the kids only - ha!!) - and how to answer them appropriately. This made simple exchanges a fun challenge.




With not having taken any official Chinese lessons, I now feel quite confident to go shopping in the markets (and haggle!!) and tell a taxi driver how to get to where I want to go. I can get by for the most part. Knowing the numbers has been probably the biggest benefit as I do about 50% of my shopping in markets or little "hole in the wall" shops where it's cash only. I still have encounters where I don't understand but I have found that faking it and speaking in English even if they are speaking in Chinese will do the trick about half the time. I feel my understanding is far above my speaking abilities, be it ever so minimal. I have found the Chinese people to be very gracious and a little effort goes a long way with them. We are certainly getting used to talking with strangers on a regular basis and doing a lot of laughing over our inability to communicate, not to mention our use of charades. :) I truly believe that without my kids it would be a different story, they are totally drawn to these little blondies and then initiate conversation.

I would love to learn more Chinese and become proficient at it, mostly to eavesdrop and surprise those who don't think I understand, but sadly, it is not high enough on my priority list these days to accomplish. So I will continue with what I've got and hope to pick up a bit more along the way.

Written by Brenda

Sunday, August 3, 2014

A Trip to the Northern Capital

Hello everyone, I have not been very diligent keeping the blog current so I will try to fill you all in on what has been happening with us lately starting with our trip to Beijing this spring. "Bei" in Mandarin means north while "jing" translates to capital. Historically, Nanjing, a city not too far from Shanghai (translated as "south capital" - get it??) was the capital of China for 6 different dynasties since 3 A.D. From 1279 onward Beijing ruled (for the most part) as the capital over all of China.

Traveling to Beijing was on the list of "places to go while we live in China" so during Joe's week long holiday at the end of April we decided to make the trek north. I spent hours researching the places we should go and the things we should see, so for the 4 days we were there, we packed in a lot of sightseeing, adventures and memories. We took a bullet train and traveled around 1300km in about 4.5 hours time, going approx 300kmph.

Yummy
First of all, our hotel was located on a pedestrian street that is really touristy, in fact, right outside the front door was a "night market" which opened up around 4pm and lasted who knows how long into the night. Here there was a long row of food vendors selling everything from traditional Chinese dumplings, fruit skewers and curly fries to non-traditional/novelty skewers of snakes, scorpions, seahorses, silkworms and locusts. Talk about interesting. What was really creepy was seeing the legs of the scorpions still moving... sorry if I lost some of you there... sad but true. Needless to say, it was a happening place. Having had bad experiences with street food, we played it as safe as possible.

For our first outing we went to see a Kung Fu show which we all really enjoyed. It had a lot of action and followed a good story. Since then Lachlan has regularly asked to "dress like a Kung Fu guy" which means, going shirtless. :)

Gate of Heavenly Peace
The next morning we got up early to make our way to Tiananmen Square and the Forbidden City (currently known as The Palace Museum). I like to still call it the Forbidden City - sounds more interesting and mysterious. ;)                                                                           They were walking distance from our hotel and easy to find. Being a Sunday, you can imagine the crowds. Walking through Tiananmen Square brought quite a bit of emotion; amazement of its sheer size and terrifying recent history.





At the Hall of Supreme Harmony
You can see the hill we later climbed behind us here.
From there we followed the crowd to the "Gate of Heavenly Peace" which leads us to the Forbidden City, which is where the Emperors of China traditionally lived. Upon entering, we were approached by a young man who offered to be our guide through the Forbidden City. We were a little wary and asked a number of times about his fee and finally agreed to let him be our guide. Bruce was his name :) Chinese people often give themselves an English name and he had named himself after his hero - Bruce Lee. Having Bruce lead us through the buildings and show us important features was truly a blessing. We gained a lot of insight we would not have known on our own, we probably would have gotten ourselves lost and wandered for hours in there, plus his English was very good (better than some other "guides" we passed). It was such a neat experience being somewhere so old and that holds so much historical significance. I told Joe that I have never been on such "royal" ground before. It is surrounded by a moat, high walls and was off-limits to the majority of society for hundreds of years. Also, it has what would have been the tallest building in the city before modern times - the Hall of Supreme Harmony - which housed the Emperor's throne.  It stands taller than the other buildings which has, unfortunately given it a lightning rod effect. It has been destroyed by fire 7 times.
The view of the Forbidden City!!

After spending nearly 2 hours in the Forbidden City we entered a park on the north side of it and climbed a small hill for a view overlooking the Forbidden City. Now, Beijing is known for being even smoggier than Shanghai, but we were fortunate to have blue skies and a clear view.

The Great Wall of China!!
So. Many. Stairs.

The next day was our trip to the Great Wall of China. We hired a private car/driver to take us to a restored section of the Great Wall called Mutianyu. Again, we had a beautiful, sunny morning and spent a couple of hours climbing stairs, marveling at this work of man and enjoying the view (and the fresh air!!). What surprised me was how short the length of refinished wall was - it didn't take us long to reach the end. Here we saw an opening to where the unfinished wall continued and after talking with some of the other tourists who had "illegally" gone down that path, we decided to venture out as well!! This was a highlight. This was a true hike.  Bushes were growing on the path, parts of it had crumbled away and we needed to climb nearly vertically in areas. Looking back, this may not have been the wisest with a 6 and 3 year old in tow, but they were troopers and thoroughly enjoyed the adventure. To get to the top of the Wall, we needed to ride a lift, like a ski-lift, and the trip down was another highlight - a bobsled-like slide that wound its way down the mountain. Joe and Autumn went flying at top speed whereas Lachlan and I were a little more cautious - to the point of backing up the line behind us, haha. Still, it was a blast.

On the original Wall
Closely following the path






Lama Temple


Lachlan meeting a Buddhist monk
On our final day, we went to the Lama Temple. No, it did not have llamas, it belongs to a Tibetan sect of Buddhism. Think Dalai Lama. The significance of this temple is that it was given imperial status and though temple roofs are traditionally made of turquoise tiles, its were given yellow - reserved only for the Emperor and seen only in the Forbidden City. Another point of interest is that it houses a 26m tall statue of the Maitreya Buddha carved from a single piece of White Sandalwood.




We did notice some differences between Beijing and Shanghai. Beijing seems more westernized. We saw more people who were overweight in an average day than we do here. People tend to be a bit more aggressive farther north, so we've been told and we did have to do our fair share of bargaining. I always felt a surge of victory after successfully completing a negotiation with street merchants. They expected this fair-haired foreigner to be an easy target. ;) In both Beijing and Shanghai they speak Mandarin, and without being a student of the language I could definitely hear a different accent. Shanghai seems like the more sophisticated of the two in our opinion. Overall, we thoroughly enjoyed our visit and would love to have spent more time at the Great Wall.

 Written by Brenda



Saturday, March 22, 2014

An Interview with Autumn

Autumn and I sat down with a cup of hot chocolate for a little interview about her experiences since living in Shanghai. Here's what she had to say:

  • How do you find living in China is different from living in Canada?

I find living in China is different because people here speak lots of different languages, like Chinese. And mostly everybody has black hair. Anything else? Not really.

  • What do you miss most about living in Canada?

Here's what I miss about Canada: I miss my toys, my friends and my bicycle.

  • What is your favorite thing to do in Shanghai?

My favorite thing to do in China is to go get jianbing. [See earlier blog post entitled "Breakfast on the Street" for more about jianbing].

  • What is your least favorite thing about Shanghai?
 My least favorite thing in Shanghai is walking. Why? Because I get tired out. Do we do more walking here than we did back home? Yeah.
Being silly while exploring our compound

  • What kinds of Chinese foods do you like?
My favorite kinds of food in China are noodles and jianbing. What kinds don't you like? I don't like spicy food. What is something weird that you have eaten? I have eaten pomello and octopus - green octopus. I didn't really like them. But I like pomello.

  • Have you made any friends here?
Yes, I have made friends named Rita and Ikwei and Natalie and April and lots others I just don't know their names. [Natalie and April are our Canadian friends, the others are local from our compound]. 
Natalie and Autumn playing at the little park in our compound.

  • What are some things you've never seen in Canada?
I've never seen poodles with clothes and tall tall buildings. Oh yeah and "popcorn flowers".
"Popcorn" flowers, as we call them, still not sure of their real name... The fragrance resembles that of lilacs
A common sight: "cinnamon" coloured poodles with clothes.

  • What has been your favorite outing and why?
My favorite outing in China is going to the temples because I see lots of cool statues. [See blog post "Longhua Temple"].
Cool statue found at a restaurant during one of our walks.
Let's ride an elephant!!

  • Do you know any Chinese words?
 All the Chinese words I know are ni hao [hello] and zai jian [good-bye] and I can count up to 99. And I know "thank you" and "you're welcome" and "I don't understand".

  • What has been the most special thing that has happened to you since living in Shanghai?
The most specialist thing since living in Shanghai has been losing my teeth. Yes, you lost 2 teeth 4 days apart. Yep :)
Two teeth lost days apart :)





Autumn has become an expert with chopsticks in no time at all.

I'd like to add a bit more to what she has already mentioned. Well, really I'd like to brag. Autumn is such a delight. She loves to learn about new things, especially exploring in nature. She will find flowers, bugs, leaves, snail shells way before anyone else thinks to look. These are treasures to her and I find her enthusiasm and curiosity for the world around her to be a wonderful gift. She is always game to try something new, food, an activity, or meeting new people. She has already mastered using chopsticks - Lachlan, not so much ;) 


Doing some hands on math
She has been growing in independence and in her care for others. We have recently joined a "Textiles Club" at the school Joe works at, so we visit once a week to do some sewing or other related projects. Autumn is quite creative and enjoys crafting with her hands, something we can enjoy together. She has a large vocabulary and often surprises us with the words she can use in the correct context and her reading and writing abilities have increased by leaps and bounds. She is also good at picking up Chinese and will tell me if she hears someone say a word or phrase that she recognized. It is such an honor to have her in our family, and for myself to have the opportunity to homeschool with her and receive that joy of watching her learn and grow.


A true beauty, inside and out :)
 Written by her Proud Mama









 


Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Longhua Temple

The Longhua Temple is the oldest, largest, most active and authentic Buddhist Temple in Shanghai dedicated to the Maitreya Buddha. It was first built in 242 AD which just boggles my mind. It was later destroyed and rebuilt in 977 AD, and given a modern restoration in the 1950s still preserving it's original architectural design. It is open to visitors for a small price (less than $2 Canadian, kids free) which also includes incense. I wasn't too sure what to expect, to be honest, I have never been inside a temple of any sort before. I found myself becoming easily overwhelmed with such a sense of ancient beliefs and practices. The smell of burning incense, the huge, ornate statues, the "hush" of being in a sacred place and watching worshipers solemnly bow to the four points - North, East, South and West, then kneel and present their offerings before one or more statues. All foreign to me, but very intriguing. I wish I knew more about who each statue was and what they symbolized. We didn't see as many monks as I hoped so I didn't get a picture of them. Essentially, we just wandered around, in and out of little buildings housing anywhere from a handful to a large number of statues. The doorways are so narrow. There are beautiful lamps hanging indoors. The temple also houses a library and a little market for purchasing figurines, items made of jade, etc. It was quite a worthwhile experience for us. A point of interest is the 40' high Longhua Pagoda which is so old and fragile it is not open to visitors. It can be seen in Steven Spielberg's movie, Empire of the Sun for all you movie buffs. Another point of interest is a 2 metre high copper bell cast in 1382 and weighs 5 tons. This bell is still used to ring in the new year with the Evening Bell-Striking Ceremony, being rung 108 times on Chinese New Years Eve. Another more morbid bit of information is that this was the site of public executions of those suspected to be communists in 1927. Please enjoy the pictures and feel free to ask if you have any questions!!

Our entry tickets
Joe with his incense

The entrance




Notice the swastika??





Beautiful lanterns
The Bell





Longhua Pagoda

The courtyard

Written by Brenda (credit goes to Wikipedia for providing me with dates and details)